I am a new teacher on a constant emotional roller coaster -- help!?

what i would do, is everytime they give you lip to send them to detention or something like that. i had cles with people like that and i dont understand why they gave the teacher such a hard time. well maybe you can talk to them, ask them what their problem is. its also because they dont understand what to do so they are confused and instead of asking questions(because they are afraid to look uncool) try to give them a little bit more attention to the bad students. try to be nice at first and if they still are not listening then do a detention with you. and im sure they'll have homework from your cl. and when they have detention after school with you, make it just them. so when they need help they might ask for help and show them that you care and create a connection with them. that way they'll feel comfortable with asking you questions.and make sure, let them know you are always there to help them out. i know it sounds cheesey but they probably dont have anyone else in the world who really cares. OK?